Accept the fact that you will grow apart from people you’ve had significant relationships with. Understand when someone no longer positively affects your life. Let them go. Don’t hinder your growth.
Nostalgia will have you believing you need to cling on to every significant relationship you make. Dont fall for it.
resist the urge to give up on healing just because it is slow
when the world considers you an ugly woman it really shapes the way everyone, including women, interact with you down to even the tiniest interaction and it feels so fucking hopeless to see how people prettier than you are treated and the…the difference in behavior is often so VISIBLE it really hurts like…there’s no hope there’s no hope there’s noooo hoooope
